Why and How to Groom Your Dog at Home

why and how to groom your dog at home


An alternative to a potentially stressful outing to the groomer is to groom your dog at home…by yourself!!

Wait…come back! It make a lot of sense if you’d just keep reading.

Sadly grooming seems to be an often overlooked part of keeping senior dogs healthy, but I have no idea why, especially because it’s such an important aspect of health and wellness. Is it possible our attitudes towards the why and how to groom your dog at home“old” has something to do with it not being worthwhile? Anyway…

The importance of grooming

Aside from the obvious necessity of keeping your dog clean, it’s a great bonding experience and it gives you the chance to have a thorough check for any lumps and bumps you may not have discovered otherwise. 

When is home grooming a good idea

It’s not uncommon for dogs who are losing their hearing, sight or perhaps even experiencing dementia, to become anxious, stressed and easily spooked. Trips to the groomer that used to be met with excitement, okay maybe just tolerance, may now be events to be feared. In order to prevent unnecessary stress, doing all or at least some of the grooming yourself in a familiar and safe environment will be a big help. 

Okay, let’s get started!

Dog grooming supplies


grooming brush I use for my senior dog RedThere’s no “one brush fits all” so it will likely be a case of trial and error to find “the one.” Take my dog Red for instance – her favourite brush has short rubber bristles, and when she feels that on her she’s ecstatic and can sit there for an hour. Keep in mind lumps, bumps and thinner skin when making your selection.

Dog clippers

I had a look on Amazon to check out the selection of dog clippers. Wow…I stopped counting at 30!! How do you decide? To be honest when I bought clippers to use on my deaf and blind sweetheart Josephine, I based my decision on price. I didn’t want to waste a lot of money for something I might have only been able to use once. 

If price isn’t your main or sole criteria, other things to think about would be finding clippers that:

  • don’t make a lot of noise
  • are comfortable and not too awkward to hold
  • have a decent battery life if you want battery operated

Nail scissors

There are a few different types of nail clippers, so if one doesn’t seem to be the right option for your dog, you have others to choose from. Nails are the one thing I would never do on my own, I leave that to the vet staff or groomer but I know people who are okay doing it themselves so it’s down to preference and comfort level. 

Ear cleaner

Cleaning your dog’s ears regularly helps keep them disease and infection free, and the best way to do that is by using a mild ear cleaner specifically made for dogs. Please be gentle!! Be sure to cut away any matted or dirty fur around the ears before getting started. 

Gauze pads

Gauze pads are another item to have in your grooming supplies basket because they’re great for bleeding injuries (not that your grooming will cause blood to be shed!), and for use with a liquid ear cleaner. 


Towels are super important for drying your dog off after his bath. I use 2 bath sized on my little 10lb Maltese Jack, so if you have a bigger dog have a few on hand. If you have to leave your wet dog to get another towel, you know he’s going to jump on the couch and use it to dry himself off, right!!

Hair dryer

You can use your own hair dryer but put it on a lower setting and keep the nozzle a few inches away from your dog’s fur. If he’s never been near one before, get him used to it before turning it on and blasting him with it!!

Over the course of a few days or so first show him the dryer when it’s off, and if he’s fine give him a treat. Then have someone turn it on away from him, on low, and if he’s fine give him a treat. Then have the person move closer with it, each time he’s fine give him a treat. You want to gradually get to the point where he’s not even bothered when he feels the warm air on him. This will help make the grooming experience pleasant. 

Dog dental care products

I’ve never known any of my groomers to brush my dogs teeth, but whether any do is not something I can comment on. I am mentioning it here simply because oral hygiene should be part of your dog’s grooming routine. There are several types of toothbrushes to choose from, even ones that fit over your finger so hopefully you’ll find something he finds agreeable. Toothpaste needs to be specifically made for dogs, and it comes not only in the paste formulation, but also in gels, sprays, wipes and powders. 


As with every other grooming product I’ve mentioned, there are tons of shampoos to choose from. I prefer one as natural as possible for sensitive skin or an oatmeal based formulation.

The bath


grooming dogs at home

You can bathe your dog in the sink, bathtub (in the tub itself or a baby bathtub), shower (like Jack above), new recycle bin (like my husband is doing with Red and Josephine above) or outside in the garden if it’s a nice warm day. Be sure to put the hose and nozzle on a gentle setting. Use a very mild dog shampoo, or whatever your vet recommends if he has a skin condition. I prefer natural products, no chemicals needed please!! If they don’t test on animals, even better. 

Dry your dog as much as possible with towels. My dogs love a good massage so while I’m drying them, they get the massage at the same time. Do it slowly and gently, and appreciate the bonding time.  

If you still need to use a blow dryer, put it on a low setting and brush him at the same time. You want him as dry as possible, so he doesn’t catch a chill.

On a regular basis

Clean the gunk out of his eyes with a bit of warm water on a gauze pad. 

Check ears for any smell or discharge, which could signal infection. Any concerns, call the vet.

Check teeth for plaque, you want to see pink gums, and notice if there’s any bad breath. Mouth problems could be either dental disease, or a more serious condition. A trip to the vet is in order – sooner rather than later.

Ideally you want to brush your dog’s teeth daily, but if that’s not possible, “often” will have to suffice. 

If your dog has had diarrhea check the fur around his butt. If you need to do a quick trim, use small scissors, and baby wipes or doggie wipes will clean things up nicely.

What else?

If your dog can’t stand being fussed with for long, keep grooming sessions short. You may give him a bath one day, brush him the next.

If your dog is older and less tolerant of the cold, you may not want to clip her too short, and put a sweater or coat on her for extra protection. 

You know your dog well, so during one of your grooming sessions you may discover a lump or bump that hadn’t been there before. Please see your vet as soon as possible if that happens.

If your dog will be standing while being groomed, make sure it’s on a non-slip surface. If he’s more comfortable lying down, then lying down it is.

If you’re not feeling too confident about clipping your dog’s nails or fur, you can either take lessons on how to do it properly, watch one of the many videos available on YouTube (I’ve included one below!) or make an appointment to have a mobile groomer come to your home.  

A How-To video

Visuals make things easier so I’ve included a video I quite like to show you the process, especially the clipping part, from start to finish.


Why and how to groom your dog at home – conclusion

Grooming is such an important aspect of your dog’s overall care, and should not depend on his age for it to happen. Whether you decide to do the whole grooming process at home, or just give him a bath and let a groomer do the rest is entirely up to you and your comfort level. The important thing is that it gets done and your dog will feel so much better.  


Is your dog still okay about going to the groomer, or have you started grooming him yourself? Is he enjoying it better now that it’s you? Any tips you’d recommend first timers just trying it out? Leave your comments and tips in the comment box below.


*There are affiliate links in this post, which means if you purchase anything I make a few pennies…literally. That money helps me help homeless animals through donations, fostering and my spay/neuter project called FIxing Spain.


  1. Roopesh

    Wow.All I can say is that Red is a really lucky dog.Thanks about that tip of the blow dryer.I have a Jack Russell and when I give her , her bath , I hesitate to use the blow dryer.I heard that it is not good for their body.I see you have mentioned that the dryer can be used at low setting and I will get it a go.
    Regarding the clipping, I am a little cautious here and rather leave it to the experts.Thanks for a great article, will definitely refer to your website on a regular basis.

    1. Hindy Pearson (Post author)

      Hi Roopesh, Thanks, but I consider myself lucky as well. The blow dryer I bought for the dogs is not at all powerful, so the low setting is fine. I mostly towel dry them anyway. We only bought clippers because it was too stressful to take my deaf and blind dog to the groomer. They were surprisingly easy to use, but we really only did it to get some fur off her body. Would never attempt them on her face. Glad to know you have found the information useful, and I’m always happy to hear from you.

  2. Vicky

    Caring for a senior dog is a great responsibility. Most people enjoy having animals but neglect caring for them properly. My dog is getting up in years. I really appreciate the details you have given on dog grooming. I love the picture of you and your dog, I hadn’t thought about putting mine in the sink but it sure would be easier on my back. Thanks for the tip on the brush needing to be a softer bristle. I have a lot of friends with senior dogs I will be passing on this site to them.

    1. Hindy Pearson (Post author)

      Hi Vicky, appreciate your comment. It’s funny, I never looked at it as any greater a responsibility then any pet at any age. I agree with you about neglect, and many don’t even realise that’s what they’re doing. I see it all the time unfortunately. We use the sink, recycle bin (obviously not the tall ones!!), huge litter box… My husband started putting our other dog in the shower, and he gets in there with him in his bathing suit. That’s a sight to see! Thanks for being interested in letting your friends know about the site. Anything I can do to help…

  3. Emily

    hi Hindy!
    what a cutie Red is! Just love that dog! When I read this post, I cannot help but think about my friend’s senior dog, Dakota. Dakota is about 14 years old and a big dog. And with age, lumps started appearing, his walk had become less steady (he tends to slip on hardwood floors so the house is full of little mats and rugs for him to walk on). And his fur is shedding like crazy. I brushed him once and the brush was full after 1 minute! I know my friend goes to a place where owners can bathe their dog. As with his side, it would make one heck of a mess at home. He always enjoys being bathed and just stays still. Dogs need that care too. I think the massage as you are drying the dog is a wonderful idea 🙂

    1. Hindy Pearson (Post author)

      Hi Emily, you have a good eye!! She definitely is cute. I’ve seen those places – they’re like car washes for dogs. Great idea, and less mess in your own house. I usually use a towel to dry my dogs off rather than a blow dryer, and they love the massage that goes along with it.

  4. Jade

    My oldest dog (maltese, 15 years old) has never liked her grooming sessions. She is mostly blind now, and she is incredibly afraid of both the brush and the scissors, and will yank away very abruptly while I’m grooming her. Since she is so scared of the grooming sessions now, I usually just cut her hair in many short sessions, no longer than 5 minutes per session. I’ll spread it out over an entire week. 5 minutes in the morning, 5 in the evening… It takes a lot of patience, but it’s the only way to get it done! She has very thin hair so she gets mats easily, so sometimes I just cut her hair one mat at a time / two mats a day. It’s worth it though. She hates the grooming, but loves being groomed. And I have lots of sweater to keep her warm. 🙂

    The best part is: she loves the hair dryer. When she hears me drying my own hair, she walks up and waits until it’s her turn!

    1. Hindy Pearson (Post author)

      You definitely found the perfect solution! So awful to scare them, so if it takes 5 minutes a session then you’ll both be calmer and she’ll enjoy it. That’s great she loves the blow dryer since that’s one thing that some dogs seem to fear. Is she okay in the bath?

      1. Jade

        We only have a shower. I always sit next to her. She likes the first 2 minutes because she likes the warmth. But then she runs out of patience and starts… well, singing. So I try to get in and out as quickly as possible. 🙂

        1. Hindy Pearson (Post author)

          My dog sings a lot as well!!


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